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With the 4th of July (Independence Day) right around the corner, you (a very excited groom-to-be) may be putting some serious thought into whether or not to weave the patriotic colors (red, white, and blue) into your wedding decoration themes. 

You may also be wondering how to do this without making it tacky!

These are very reasonable questions—but rest assured that there are plenty of ways to utilize this color scheme in your wedding in a manner that won’t feel ‘over the top’ or ‘out of place.’ 

If the armed forces are a part of your family’s lineage (or that of your bride-to-be’s), and/or if you come from a long line of police officer service members—then this may be especially pertinent.  

But even beyond these things—if patriotism and paying homage to our great nation are important to you, and if you really want to make this a part of your July wedding celebration—then we’ve got you covered. 

Here are some of the top tips to keep in mind as you break out the wedding planner book and prepare for a patriotic-themed wedding day. 

1. Go Easy on the ‘Red’ and ‘Blue’ Colors

Holding a wedding celebration that’s decorated with reds, whites, and blues doesn’t have to mean ‘super’ red, white, and blue! 

It could, for example, mean going mostly white with subtle red and blue accents as supporting colors. 

This is a lot different from making all three colors ‘equal’ as you decorate. This, by contrast, could very well lead to a color palette that’s just too much on the eyes—that goes in too many distracting directions at once. 

2. ‘Patriotic’ Can Be a Secondary Theme

One of the primary fears about using red, white, and blue to decorate for the wedding is that this color scheme will appear ‘political,’ and look more like a presidential campaign rally than a romantic wedding. 

For this reason, you may want to use the ‘patriotic’ theme as a secondary—and choose ‘traditional,’ ‘elegant,’ or ‘luxurious’ as a primary descriptor for how you want your wedding to look. 

By this logic, you can pretty much do all of your shopping for white decorations that fit under one of those labels. Then, you can add your favorite accent pieces to complete the look and bring all the patriotic colors together. 

3. Need Some Inspiration? Consult Pinterest

You really can’t go wrong by looking to Pinterest for some inspiration. 

Just visit the site, type in your search query (for example, ‘patriotic wedding theme’), and see what comes up. 

You might be surprised by the wealth of different ideas you can find. 

Pinterest is an excellent community for helping people to find inspiration and creative ideas for weddings. 

4. Reflect Your Patriotic Theme Subtly in Your Tuxedo  

You don’t need to go all-out and dress like Uncle Sam for your wedding! 

You can still stick with an ‘elegant’ wedding theme while paying homage to the patriotic color scheme. 

For example, you can wear a traditional black tuxedo—but choose a red or blue bow tie.

This subtle color scheme change can really make the look ‘pop’ without going to tacky extremes. 

You could even take this to a more ‘conservative’ level by choosing a dark red or dark blue tie. 

This will blend in and look a lot more elegant than a brightly colored red or blue option. 

You can also incorporate your boutonniere into the color scheme as well. 

With a white shirt, a dark blue bow tie, and a red boutonniere—you’ll represent all of the colors, but you’ll be doing so in a manner that isn’t ‘over the top.’ 


Of course, you can always feel free to crank up the ‘patriotism’ meter a little bit more, to suit your taste. 

But as a general rule, these are some of our favorite tips for weaving red, white, and blue into the color scheme for any wedding. 

Need a bit of extra help?

Consider stopping in for a brainstorming session. 

We’d love to help you make your special day a perfect blend of ‘patriotic’ and ‘romantic.’ 

Plus, your bride-to-be will thank you for taking such a keen interest in the decoration choices. 

You’re off to a great start. 

You’ve got this!


When it comes to formal wear, there is to be a lot of discussion about when it’s proper to wear a tuxedo, and when it’s proper to wear a suit. 

And to be fair, this is an important conversation to have—because you always want to be dressed appropriately for the occasion. 

But here’s another crucial question that sometimes throws people for a loop:

Technically, what is the difference between a tuxedo and a suit?

Nowadays, suits and tuxedos can sometimes look quite similar. 

So understanding the basics of how to tell them apart is actually important. 

And in this post, that’s exactly what you’re going to learn. 

Let’s dive in and talk about it. 

4 Telltale Differences between Tuxedos and Suits

1. Satin Details

The most reliable method for telling a tuxedo apart from a suit is the fact that tuxedos are decorated with satin details, while suits all consist of the same material. 

On most tuxedos, you’ll find satin-faced lapels, satin buttons, and even a satin side-stripe down the pant leg. 

Even on more ‘modern’ tuxedos that don’t necessarily contain all of these details, you’ll at least see satin trim on the lapels, and a thin stripe running down the pant leg. 

Suits, on the other hand, won’t contain these hints of satin in the trim. 

A suit will usually also alternatively be equipped with fabric-covered, plastic, or even bone buttons. 

This is the best and easiest way to tell a tuxedo apart from a suit. 

2. The Range of Accessories

When you rent a tuxedo, you’ll notice that it comes with a range of important accessories. Depending on style, you may also receive:

  • A cummerbund
  • A waistcoat
  • Suspenders
  • A bowtie

While suits, on the other hand, do not require all of these pieces in order to be deemed ‘acceptable’ or to look great. 

For example, you can wear a suit coat without a vest. But you would likely never do this with a tuxedo coat. 

The range of accessories can give you another important ‘clue’ as to whether you’re looking at a suit or a tuxedo. 

3. The Shirt Style

The vast majority of tuxedos are black. 

While tuxedos can sometimes come in a range of colors, the shirts don’t really tend to vary much. 

Tuxedos are generally worn with white shirts that either have a turndown collar or wing collar. 

Suits, on the other hand, can be and will be worn with shirts in a wide variety of different colors and/or styles. 

Looking at what shirt a person is wearing under the jacket can definitely give you a clue as to how the entire ensemble would officially be categorized. 

4. The Shoes

And finally, you can usually tell a lot about the outfit by taking a good look at the shoes. 

Tuxedos are almost always worn with black patent shoes

Suits, on the other hand, can be worn with oxfords, slip-ons, or even something more casual (think sneakers or tennis shoes, cowboy boots, etc.). 

You would never wear these types of shoes with a tuxedo—which tells you that shoe choice is not only important, but that it can also be used as a clue to help you figure out whether or not a particular outfit would fall into the ‘tux’ or ‘suit’ category. 

Renting a Tuxedo vs. Buying a Tuxedo

Another difference between tuxedos and suits is that more people tend to purchase their own suits. 


Well, since tuxedos are really only designed to be worn for black-tie and formal occasions, there usually just aren’t going to be as many occasions where you’ll be required to wear one. 

You can find a wide range of tuxedos available on our website. 

You’ll also find that ordering/renting tuxedos is usually easier and more efficient—especially if you rarely attend formal events more than a couple of times per year. 


There you have it! 

Now you know the key differences between a tuxedo and a suit. 

If you’re looking for a tuxedo for your next formal event, please don’t hesitate to give us a call or stop by

We’d love to get you fitted and find you the perfect option. 

We know a thing or two about tuxedos, and would love to give you hand.


If you’re getting ready to attend a formal or semi-formal event (a prom, a wedding, an important conference, a business luncheon, etc.), then you may be wondering:

“What’s the difference between a bowtie and a necktie? And when is it appropriate to wear either of them?”

This can be a confusing question. 

Sometimes, you really need to wear a bow tie.

While at other times, it’s definitely more socially acceptable to wear a necktie.

And sometimes, you even have the option to choose one or the other!

So in this post, you’re going to learn the truth about which one to wear during which specific types of occasions. 

1. For Black-Tie Formal Events, Wear A Bow Tie

If the event is black tie or formal (i.e. if the men in attendance are going to be wearing tuxedos), then it’s definitely going to be a social and stylistic requirement for you to wear a bow tie.

Remember, black tie events are called black tie for a reason. 

They signify the highest level of formality and style.

And for an occasion like this, in our culture and society, a bow tie is a must.

2. If You’re Wearing A Suit, A Necktie Will Suffice

If the event is casual enough that either a tuxedo or a suit would be acceptable (such as prom), and/or if the event isn’t formal enough to specifically require a tuxedo, then odds are good that you would be safe wearing a nice suit and a necktie. 

In fact, if you’re going to be wearing a suit at all, a necktie is the default choice. 

It’s rare to wear a bow tie with a suit—unless you’re trying to achieve a particular type of alternative style. 

3. If The Event Is More Casual, A Necktie Is Appropriate

Sometimes, overdressing can be almost as awkward as underdressing.

For example, if you’re going to a business luncheon, odds are good that nobody else is going to be wearing a tuxedo. 

So if you showed up in a tuxedo with a bow tie, you would definitely look out of place.

And this is exactly what you don’t want.

4. If You’re Wearing A Pleated Shirt With Studs, Wear A Bowtie

You’ll probably notice that a lot of tuxedos come with a pleated shirt. 

And that shirt probably has little button studs that form a line running up the center of the shirt, all the way to the collar (these are traditionally black). 

If you wore a necktie, you would cover these studs—and that would defeat their purpose. 

This is a good indication of whether or not the shirt you’ve selected is supposed to be worn with a bow tie or a necktie.

5. You Can Wear Either A Bow Tie Or A Necktie For ‘Black Tie Optional’ Events

Some events are labeled as formal, but are technically classified as ‘black tie optional.’ 

For these types of events, it would be acceptable to wear either a tuxedo or a suit—and either a bow tie or a necktie would be acceptable, as long as it matched appropriately with the rest of your ensemble.

6. What About Wearing A Bow Tie With A Suit?

As a general rule, this isn’t a style option that be appropriate for a black-tie or formal event. 

However, sometimes, for less formal events, you can get away with wearing a bowtie with a suit as a unique or alternative expression of style.

But keep in mind that while this can be acceptable in certain situations, it’s also true that you’ll be less likely to wear a plain black bowtie. 

You’d be more likely to wear a bowtie that is either colorful, or that matches the rest of your ensemble in some other way. (Think of Bill Nye the Science Guy, for example.)

7. Should You Ever Go Without A Tie?

Sometimes, it’s a style in itself to go sans tie. 

Leaving the top button of your shirt and collar unbuttoned can produce a cool and rugged look. 

Sometimes, you can also opt for a turtleneck as opposed to a button-down shirt altogether. 

However, it’s important to understand that this look is really only acceptable on very limited occasions. 

If you show up at a formal black-tie event with no tie, you will look sloppy as opposed to rugged

With that being said, if you show up at a business lunch sans tie, but manage to pull it off well with the rest of your ensemble—it could make you look edgy, and perhaps even a bit more stylish.


Hopefully, this post has helped to clear up some of the confusion surrounding the question of when to wear a bow tie vs. a necktie for special events. 

And just remember—if you need some help getting a tux or suit for your next “tie event”, don’t hesitate to give us a call or come on by.

You can also view some of our available tie styles and colors online for inspiration (and we have many more in stock in our store).

We’d love to help make your next formal occasion a massive success!